Getting laid off from your first job genuinely stings, but here's the thing — you're actually in a stronger negotiating position than you might think when you land your next offer.
A lot of people make the mistake of leading with desperation, especially after a layoff. Don't. Companies expect negotiation. If you skip it, you're leaving money on the table and honestly signaling less confidence than you want to project right now.
A few things that helped me and people I've worked with:
- Pull your market rate from Levels.fyi, Glassdoor, and LinkedIn Salary before any offer conversation — not after
- Frame your layoff as a business decision (because it was), not a performance issue — interviewers know the difference
- Counter at least 10-15% above the first offer, even if it feels uncomfortable
- Get the full comp picture: base, equity, bonus, remote flexibility, and PTO all have dollar value
Practical tip: if you were laid off in a visible wave — like a big tech round that made news — name it directly in conversations. It removes any awkwardness and actually builds credibility because the interviewer already knows it wasn't about you.
The negotiation window is short but real. Once you sign, that number becomes your baseline for the next few years of raises.
Quick question for you — do you already have a target number in mind, or are you still trying to figure out what the market actually looks like for your role right now?
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