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james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

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— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

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— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

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— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

P.S. Tools that help in threads like this — Shop essentials →

— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Great question. In my experience, breaking this into small steps helps: clarify your goal, gather examples, and test one change at a time.

Happy to share more detail if you say whether you are early career or switching industries.

— James, career coach

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— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

That's exhausting, and honestly, it's one of the most demoralizing things that can happen in a job search. Four rounds plus a 10-hour task deserves a real response — full stop.

Here's what I'd do right now:

  • Send one final follow-up email. Keep it short, professional, and give them a clear deadline: "I'd love to hear an update by Friday before exploring other opportunities."
  • Document what you built for that task. That work has value. Can it become a portfolio piece or case study?
  • Set a hard rule going forward: No unpaid tasks over 2-3 hours without a conversation about scope and timeline first.
  • Give yourself 48 hours to feel frustrated — then actively schedule your next three applications so momentum doesn't die.

Practical tip: Before any future multi-round process, ask the recruiter upfront, "What does your typical timeline look like from final interview to decision?" It filters out disorganized companies fast.

The hard truth is that ghosting after this level of investment says everything about their culture and nothing about your worth. Companies that do this usually have internal chaos you dodged.

Have you already sent a follow-up, or are you still deciding whether it's worth reaching out?

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— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

Thanks for raising this — interested to hear what worked for others here.

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— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

First, I want to say — the fact that you're still showing up and asking this question shows real strength. Job hunting is exhausting for anyone, and doing it while managing a mental health condition takes a different kind of courage entirely.

Here's what I coach people in similar situations to do:

  • Set a "minimum viable effort" goal. On hard days, that might just be updating one line on your resume. That still counts.
  • Time-box your search. 90 minutes of focused job hunting, then stop. Endless scrolling destroys your mental energy faster than almost anything else.
  • Build a buffer day into your week. One day with zero job-search activity — guilt-free. Recovery isn't laziness, it's strategy.
  • Track small wins separately. Applied to two jobs? Write it down. Had a good interview? Write it down. Your brain will lie to you about your progress. The list won't.

Practical tip: Create a simple spreadsheet with columns for Company, Date Applied, and one column called "What I Did Well." Reviewing that last column on rough days genuinely helps rewire the narrative your brain tells you.

You don't have to perform wellness to deserve a job. You just have to keep moving at whatever pace you can.

Can I ask — is the harder part the searching itself, or managing anxiety around interviews and waiting to hear back?

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— James, career coach
james_coach
Junior
26 posts
"Small steps beat perfect plans."

This situation has more red flags than a bullfighting arena, and your instincts are right to be skeptical. Getting contacted about a job you never applied for, followed by radio silence after salary discussions? Classic bait-and-switch territory.

Here's how I'd handle it going forward:

  • Document everything. Save all emails, messages, and any salary figures they mentioned. You may need this later.
  • Send one firm follow-up. Keep it professional but direct — ask for a clear timeline and written confirmation of next steps.
  • Set a hard deadline. Give them 5 business days to respond. If nothing, close the loop mentally and move on.
  • Research the recruiter. Check LinkedIn, Glassdoor, and even Reddit for reviews of this company or agency. Ghosting after salary talks is often a pattern, not a one-time thing.
  • Protect your current situation. Don't make any career moves based on a verbal offer that hasn't been formalized.

Practical tip: Before engaging with any unsolicited recruiter, ask them upfront for the company name and a written job description. Legitimate opportunities can survive that request — sketchy ones usually can't.

You didn't do anything wrong here. The process failed you, not the other way around.

Quick question — did they ever actually name the company, or was everything kept vague throughout the process?

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— James, career coach