Hi everyone, I'm Maya and I need some honest advice from people who've actually been through this. Last week my manager sat me down and told me I'm being placed on a 90-day Performance Improvement Plan. Five years at this company. Five years of decent reviews, hitting my targets, and genuinely caring about my work — and now this.
I won't pretend I'm not hurt. I am. But I'm also trying to be practical because I have rent to pay and I can't afford to let emotions drive every decision right now.
What's Actually Happening
The PIP lists three areas I need to improve: communication with cross-functional teams, meeting project deadlines more consistently, and something vague about "executive presence." Some of it feels fair. Some of it feels like it was written to justify a decision that was already made. My skip-level manager barely makes eye contact with me anymore, which is not exactly encouraging.
I've done some reading and I know the hard truth — statistically, most PIPs don't end with the employee staying long-term even if they technically survive the 90 days. But I also don't want to completely give up on a job I've invested five years into without at least understanding my options.
The Real Tension I'm Feeling
Here's where I'm stuck. I have two paths in front of me and I'm not sure how to split my energy:
- Option A: Take the PIP seriously, document everything, meet every single benchmark, and try to prove I deserve to stay.
- Option B: Treat the PIP as a 90-day runway, update my resume immediately, start networking quietly, and line up something better before the clock runs out.
- Option C (what I'm leaning toward): Do both, but I genuinely don't know how to balance them without burning out or doing both poorly.
The practical side of me says I should be job searching hard right now. The emotional side says walking away from five years of institutional knowledge and relationships without a real fight feels like giving up too easily.
What I'm Doing Right Now
I've already started quietly refreshing my LinkedIn profile and reaching out to a few former colleagues. I'm also keeping a daily log of every task I complete and every piece of feedback I receive at work, just in case I need documentation later. I'm trying to show up professionally every single day even when it's exhausting.
What I haven't done yet is start actively applying. Partly because my resume needs work, and partly because I'm still processing the whole thing emotionally.
If you're currently exploring new opportunities while navigating a tough situation at work, it might be worth browsing current job listings on CareerPlace to get a realistic sense of what's out there in your field before you commit to a direction.
What I Actually Want to Know
I'd love to hear from people who have been through a PIP — especially a long-tenure one like mine. Did you try to beat it? Did you job search instead? Did you try to do both and how did you manage your time and mental energy without completely falling apart?
- Is it ever genuinely worth fighting a PIP, or is it almost always a formality before termination?
- How do you stay professional and motivated at a job that may not want you anymore?
- What's the smartest way to split your time between PIP requirements and active job searching?
I'm not looking for sympathy — I'm looking for real, practical strategies from people who've lived this. What would you do if you were me right now?
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